Long story short.....we decided to work it out.
There are some things that I am sure Zach would not want me to share with you. But, the reason for his e-mail and feelings were beyond his control.
He is on his way to "normal", and apologized for everything that happened.
The babies and I are back in our home (thank goodness because it killed me whenever my children asked to go home).
Are we back to how we were a month ago, no. Will get back to that place? Yes, I believe we will.
I am sure it will be a long and difficult road, every marriage is.
What we learned: Marriage is hard-work, and something you need to work at each and every day.