Have you ever noticed that when your significant other is sad/upset/angry about something, and you are not yet aware of what the problem is, you jump to the worst possible conclusion?
....he is leaving me for another woman.....
....he lost his job....
....he isn't ready to make this commitment.....
....he doesn't love our family anymore....
.......or is this just me? Do you jump to the worst possible conclusion, or are you calm and level-headed....unlike me? :)
I generally do. I was in a horrible relationship before I met my husband. I guess I became one of those people who expected the worse so I wasn't surprised when the worst came about? My husband says he's trying to retrain me.
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