So, you know how I blogged just a few hours ago that my husband was upset? Well, apparently he was....well is.
He doesn't know why, but he isn't happy.
He wrote me an e-mail basically asking me for a divorce.
I moved the kids and I to my parents house.
The thing that is killing me is that all my children want to do is go home. I even told them "this will be fun, we will have a slumber party at Pa's!" All Jack kept saying is..."no party, go home". It breaks my heart.
Both of them are still awake at 11:15pm. They obviously know something is going on.....I just don't know what to tell them.
Oh CRAP~! I am so sorry to hear this! My heart and prayers go out to you!!
ReplyDeleteThere's not much I can say that would be "right" but if there is anything I can do.
if you just want to vent - my email address is livethelegendarylife@yahoo.com
@yahoo:disqus ;(
and...please take this for what it is worth (my 2cents) I HAVE been there. This is what I would tell my daughter if she were ever in this situation.
ReplyDeleteUnless it is a dangerous situation - you should NOT move out. It makes it ever so much easier on them - "out of sight out of mind" works so very well for them. That is your home. That is your marriage. If you believe it is worth fighting for - then you do. Yelling and screaming won't work (they just shut down) but you make sure that they too have to look at the sweet little faces who are looking at you like "why?"
He said he's not happy - OH My!....... happiness is only a part of a true commitment. Someone (preferably a man) needs to let him know that a REAL man stands by his word. That a marriage is a long term investment and there will be days when "unhappy" doesn't even begin to describe it! It's not all sunshine and roses. It IS however not something to be taken lightly! Being true to your word means you stay through the "unappy" and look forward to the "happy".
I'm so sorry to hear this. Good luck with everything.
ReplyDeleteomg I missed this :( terrible. so terrible :( Poor kiddies
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