Not really, I am always in need of good relationship advice. :)
Last night I was upset and hurt. I vented to a very dear friend of mine, and she is so sweet!
I realized that it is going to take me a long time to forget the past, especially when promises made are not being kept.
I explained to my husband what was going through my mind, and I asked him how he felt our relationship was. He told me a couple of things that have been bothering him, and we talked late into the night.....which means I am extra tired today because the kids woke up at the crack of dawn. :(
Anyway, the point of this post is: check in with your husband (or wife, but I am afraid most of my readers are women). Ask him what is wrong.....explain the issues that are bothering you. Believe me, it is better to deal with them before you have a million "problems" to share with your spouse.
A couple months ago I heard this wise piece of advice, from an unlikely source. The Teenager has told me something in confidence, and we went to talk about it later. The only "problem" was that Z was in the room....so, The Teenager asked me if I had told him. I tried to avoid the question, but then The Teenager said these words: "I expected you too, that's what married people do. Share all their secrets."
So, if you have a secret or have this problem you need to share with your husband....just do it. It is what married people do.
What a wise young teenager.